Why write a blog?

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I think words are a great way to deliver Wellness. I’m a therapist by trade and provide my service mostly …

Shelter in place

Shelter in place

The coronavirus has turned the world upside down. It’s taken many lives, caused the economy to plummet in ways never …

How Technology is Hijacking Your Mind

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“It’s easier to fool people than to convince them that they’ve been fooled.” — Unknown. I’m an expert on how technology hijacks …

Can Family Secrets Make You Sick?

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In the 1980s, Dr. Vincent Felitti, now director of the California Institute of Preventive Medicine in San Diego, discovered something …

The Neuroscience of Creativity

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Neuroscientific investigations often cross the borders between scientific disciplines; they walk boldly from biology to psychology and stride straight through …

How Laughter Brings Us Together

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New research suggests that people who laugh together like each other more. Victor Borge once wrote, “Laughter is the closest …

My Passion: Working With Couples

My Passion: Working With Couples

I’m an extremely fortunate therapist who’s able to do exactly what he’s passionate about: Couples Counseling Burlingame (or Relationship Therapy). …

Is Therapy Just Talk?

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Psychotherapy is often referred to as talk therapy where the client and therapist’s primary means of interaction is talking. But …

Acceptance Vs. Agreement

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Regardless of the nature of a personal relationship, be it parent/child, husband/wife, close friends, etc, acceptance plays a critical role …

How to Talk to My Kid?

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Sometimes it can feel that teenagers are some of the most difficult people to understand on the planet. On top …

Chill Out, Parents

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A few years ago I worked with a 14 year old boy who had a really difficult relationship with his …

To Be Asian or to Be American

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Asian Americans make up 5.8 percent of the total American population. On January 28th this year, many Asian Americans will …

How To Make Hard Choices

How To Make Hard Choices

Here’s a talk that could literally change your life. Which career should I pursue? Should I break up — or …

The Theory of Grit

The Theory of Grit

Grit: The power of passion and perseverance. Leaving a high-flying job in consulting, Angela Lee Duckworth took a job teaching …